So I lied. I wrote a blog a couple weeks ago saying, "Hey, I'm back!" and then I left again. Maybe not a lie... but
definitely misleading.
Right after I wrote that blog I went on a two week trip with the Doctor. We hit all the tourist spots on the east coast: Statue of Liberty, Empire State Building, Central Park, Capitol Hill, Washington Monument, Lincoln Memorial, Independence Hall... you name some historical entity on the right side of the country, and we saw it.
Needless to say, it was exhausting. But fun.
We got back to the Twin Cities last Tuesday only to fly out to
SoCal on Wednesday. The Doctor's ex-girlfriend was getting married and we bought the plane tickets before we realized she was having an additional ceremony/reception in North Dakota that we could have gone to. Oh well, it was a nice, short trip to San Diego.
Since it is the month of June, the aforementioned wedding and a million others have had me thinking. The Doctor and I do plan to get married some day, but even with how much my mom pesters me about it, it probably won't be until after I'm done with grad school. I become stressed easily; I don't need to plan a wedding while I'm writing a dissertation. Also, and I'm not sure why, but I don't like the idea of getting married before I'm 25. I realize I'm already living with the man I plan to be with for the rest of my life (and if you think I'm joking, remember I moved to Minnesota for him... we're committed), I'd like to be able to tell my kids that they should wait until they have a career and health insurance before tying the knot.
Anyway, about weddings. I'd like to think that I'm sensible enough to not want a big wedding. I'm not. I really do want that night of feeling like a princess and having all my friends and family with me to celebrate.
I'd also like to think that I'm not one of those girls that has been planning my wedding since I was 12 years old. I'm not actually. I didn't start planning my wedding until I was in ninth grade and that was only because I was in a wedding. I admit, I look at wedding dresses and sites once in a while. My imaginary plans are ever evolving. But I've noticed that every time I go to one of these things I think, "
That will never happen at
my wedding." For instance, no kids in the ceremony. No flower girls or ring bearers... they only screw things up. I'm also not having a DJ because if the chicken dance is heard near or around the reception, I might get blood on my beautiful white dress from beating the crap out of somebody.
I have a lot of ideas of what my special day will be like. I know what music I want, what the dresses will look like, who will be there, and most
importantly, how organized I'll try to make it.
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